steve at the bottom of this is a lot of sad kids growing up without a dad. >> yeah. that's right. you are absolutely right. these people on the show would of course well they are growing up with a dad. not the traditional form of dad. i love the way you over enunciated shawte low. show is carlos walker. here is the real deal here. the feminization of men which has resulted in the degradation of men which we have seen here in 21st century america. this guy needs to make better decisions. now, oxygen says they are not encouraging this kind of behavior. but i certainly haven't seen them condemn it. you know why? that would require them use the j word judgment. we're not allowed to do that men as you grow up to be men, you are no longer boys you need to start judging. you need to start judging the people around you. need to start judging the situations around you and you need to start judging your own horrible crappy decisions just like shoty low. we are not allowed to do that because that could result in hurt feelings and politically incorrect. if he had been bent over someone's knee